What is love actually based on? While I agree that it has to be based on mutual feelings, how is it possible that a guy who likes a girl did nothing to make the girl know? Same for the girl, how is it possible that she knows he is really the guy if the guy did not do anything at all for her?
I used to believe that mutual feelings are built on and the girl will appreciate what the guy does, not just by spilt seconds (Maybe because I'm ISTJ). So if a guy has been doing a lot of things for the girl that he likes, is the feeling built on the girl's side? I used to think it is possible but now I totally disagree with it.
If it is purely based on feelings, then maybe I should just hack care, and then suddenly wow a girl has feeling for me..(how immature this based on feeling idea is). Maybe its naive also to think that a girl will be touched me through my actions. So in conclusion? Leave all to fate. :)
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love is not like when a guy does the most thing for a girl, then he wins the girl's heart. it's true that girls will appreciate what the guy did, but not necessarily 'love' him back in return. the love world is not as far as that. well, that's what i personally feel.
but also dun heck care la. coz sometimes maybe the girl that you have feeling with does have feeling on you also. then with a bit more of your effort, you both will get together! but for the case where the girl is already quite sure that she doesn't have feeling on you, the effort the guy makes could be futile.
all the best!
oops. typo in 1st paragraph. *the love world is not as FAIR as that*
Wow thats a golden piece of advice from Kah Hwee. Thanks! :)
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